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Failing Freedom struggle in life cuz of trust issues I guess

Well I'm nearly 50 and I tell you like my mentor said. Believe everything, trust nothing.
Freedom is a tool to use to crowd control. think bout that...
Freedom, lol. Choice of freedom? Or freedom of choice? However it is a trap that they don't educate people.
Don't tell me that you are like me to learn what is necessary and not a bit more or pay Universities for that bit more.
Freedom does not exist.
@Shinchan_Nohara-257 I do have an over protective parent too, and it's really annoying when they do this but there must be a time when they would stop this, you won't live like this forever, wait a little long, these parents won't listen so just be a little patient. You have got this!
My brother once said , just agree with parents , (he was very rebellious) whatever they say or do just agree, this is my advice, you're trying to rebel, don't bother just agree with what your mother and grandmother say and do , agree , agree ,agree one day you'll be old enough to lead your own life. Be thankful for your life and what you have going on , education, clothes, a home, food? , it could be a lot worse , just agree and be free ,rather than fight , life will be more peaceful and you can make your own plans for the future ,all the best SimonBirch xxx
Accept it for now. It is an annoyance, nothing more.

In five years you'll start uni and will move from home.
Yeah, they do sound like a pretty serious pain in the neck. Not so much "protective" as narrow-minded and martinetish.

All I can offer up in the way of hope is that someday it will all be over: you'll be old enough to go out on your own. In the meantime, perhaps you can find some friends at school to make up for what you don't seem to be getting at home. At least you do have online access, so there's another possible outlet.

I went through a pretty rocky road myself when I was a teen. But do your best to keep the faith: life will indeed get better (eventually). :)

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